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Why Am I So Negative All The Time?
Understanding Negativity Bias: The Neuroscience Behind Our Pessimistic Outlook and How to Overcome It Have you ever wondered why negative thoughts seem to be more available to you and stick around longer than positive ones? Why a single criticism can overshadow a dozen compliments? This tendency to focus more on negative experiences than positive ones is not just about being pessimism. It is deeply rooted in the way our brains work. Understanding negativity bias can help us
Peter, LMFT
22 hours ago4 min read
Attachment Styles & How They Shape Your Relationships
Understanding the Blueprint Behind How You Love Have you ever wondered why some people crave closeness while others instinctively pull away? Why certain relationships feel effortless and others feel like an emotional tug-of-war? The answer often lies in something most of us never think about: our attachment style. Attachment theory, originally developed by British psychiatrist John Bowlby and later expanded by psychologist Mary Ainsworth, suggests that the bonds we form with
Peter, LMFT
4 days ago5 min read


Achieving Self-Growth Through Therapy
Sometimes, life feels like a loop. You find yourself stuck in the same patterns, repeating the same mistakes, or reacting in ways that don’t serve you. It’s frustrating, isn’t it? I’ve been there too. The good news is, therapy can be a powerful tool to help you break free and grow into the person you want to be. Let’s explore how therapy can guide you on this journey of self-growth. Understanding the Power of Therapy for Self-Growth Therapy isn’t just for moments of crisis. I
Peter, LMFT
Feb 83 min read


Cultivating Creativity: Raising Kids with 1990s Ideals
In a world buzzing with smartphones, tablets, and instant connectivity, raising kids the way 90s kids were raised might seem like a daunting challenge. As the last generation to experience childhood without the constant presence of technology, 90s kids had the freedom to explore, play, create, imagine, experience stillness (yes, boredom!), and even struggle. These core values instilled in children back then are perhaps more important now than ever before. Unplugging for Bliss
Peter, LMFT
Feb 63 min read


Top Therapy Approaches to Strengthen Couples Relationships: Effective Couples Therapy Insights
When relationships hit rough patches, it can feel like you're stuck in a loop of misunderstandings and frustration. You want to move get out of this loop, but finding your way out isn't clear. That’s where effective couples therapy comes in. It offers a way to break free from those repetitive patterns and build a stronger, more connected partnership. If nothing else, it becomes an opportunity for you both to connect, without the distractions of everyday life. Your therapist a
Peter, LMFT
Feb 55 min read


Afraid of Vulnerability? Don’t Be. It’ll Help Your Relationship
Vulnerability is sometimes viewed as the ultimate weakness, especially for men. But in reality, it's actually a strength that can be...
Peter, LMFT
Dec 29, 20221 min read


Two Questions To Help You Get Unstuck
We are going to have ups and downs - thats inevitable. But how do we manage to get ourselves out of the rut we are in? Because when we...
Peter, LMFT
Dec 28, 20222 min read


What is Vulnerability, Really?
Vulnerability is often talked about in the context of relationships, but it can be difficult to understand what it really means and how...
Peter, LMFT
Dec 19, 20222 min read


Negative Thought Loops - How do I get out?
Negative thought loops can fuel stress and anxiety, and it can feel impossible to get out. If you find yourself stuck in a pattern of...
Peter, LMFT
Dec 16, 20222 min read


Fueling the Relationship — 5 Things to Help Your Partner Feel Seen, Heard, Understood and Respected
As we grow together, relationships can begin to feel robotic in many ways. We wake up, make breakfast, go to work, come home, make...
Peter, LMFT
Dec 15, 20223 min read


Listen to Others, Talk to Yourself - For self-growth
There is one person we hear the most, one trusted individual that guides our every move – ourselves. We are powerful in our messaging,...
Peter Ehrhorn, LMFT
Feb 27, 20214 min read


How do I know I have the best therapist for me?
Picking a therapist can be a tough decision. Some things to consider: 1. STYLE - Therapists have a wide range of styles. While shopping...
Peter Ehrhorn, LMFT
Nov 17, 20202 min read
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